An interesting dilemma you have there. If the transmission is not slipping the oil change may delay the inevitable and you may not have problems in the future. The alternative would be to get the dealer to do the work and then you would have a documented transmission problem inside the warranty period that you could use in the event that a transmission replacement was needed in the future outside the warranty period. 
Or you could buy an extended warranty and hope it would cover the cost of the transmission replacement should it be necessary.
FWIW I would probably go to the dealer with a sample of the oil and ask them what their approach to fixing the problem would be and document their response. Unless the box is slipping they probably will not even investigate further than saying that the transmission is sealed for life......
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