Excellent, now you know. Buy the Defender, you’ll love it.
All of the ‘issues’ you have with the Defender, G-man, are positives in my book.
They make me feel at one with the vehicle. The opposite (as you’ve described) to a phat Toyota.
I like leaning on the B-pillar, I find it comfortable. And I like the commanding vision being close to a flat sided door affords.
I like leaning my left leg on the handbrake.
I like the upright seating position, it’s the most comfortable by far on a long journey.
I like the forward position of the front seats, less wasted space. I like the simple flat upright dashboard. The flat windscreen and side glass is also much cheaper to replace if it breaks.
As you’ve correctly identified, the flat-sided Defender enables excellent all round vision, but also easy packing. A phat Toyota with all its interior curves is a pain in the butt to pack. Also you won’t find much room in the back or a bed as the ceiling is much lower.
Simplicity is totally under-rated in the contemporary world of vehicle design. A Defender is the simplest and the best IMO. Don’t change the suspension height or the tyre size. You don’t need to! and the Defender will ride better on long trips.
Enjoy your trip to the Cape! with your elbow out the window! 😎

