You need to get in series with one of the supplies to the LEDs and measure the current.
Are the LEDs currently on all the time or switched with the head/dash lights?
Let's do a worked example based on 6 gauges and an estimated maximum LED current of 20mA (pretty typical).
6 x 20mA = 120mA.
So flat out, those LEDs are going to draw 120mA. As you drop the voltage, the current will also fall in a non-linear manner, but for the sake of the exercise, let's go with half brightness, half voltage.
So we assume at half brightness, we'll want half voltage (6V) and the LEDs are going to draw 60mA. You need to drop 6V at 60mA so you'll want a 100 Ohm resistor which is going to dissipate ~360mW.
You'll want a >=3W wirewound pot. Something like :
R2156A - Taiwan Alpha 100R Lin D Shaft 24mm Single 3W Wire-wound Pot - AltronicsAlthough ideally you'd probably want more like 250 Ohm to dim them to almost nothing.
The reason for the 3W pot is to do with the current handling of the element. The power rating of a pot is for the entire element, so the closer the wiper is to the start the lower the power it can handle. Easiest way to work that out is to calculate the current the entire element can handle and not exceed that. Power = the square of the current multiplied by the resistance (P=I2R).
For a 3W 100 Ohm pot that is the square root of 3W/100 Ohm (173mA). A 1W pot would only be able to handle 100mA, so when you just crack the knob to "slightly less bright" you've already exceeded the element power handling and it will eventually experience a "life limiting event" and release the magic smoke. Once you get down into carbon trace pots (which barring one useless exception are all Jaycar stock) then you'll cook the element in short order.
If you can get a current measurement for a group of LEDs, it's easy to work out the entire load. If you don't have a decent meter with a good low current resolution, put a 100Ohm 1W resistor in series with the LEDs and measure the voltage drop. Current can be calculated from that I=V/R.
You can always play with fixed resistors until you get a brightness that you're happy with and work from there.