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mojo
21st November 2007, 02:41 PM
We went to Fraser for a few days a little while ago - my first time there, it was great!:BigThumb: We were staying at the Yidney Rocks beachfront units (fantastic spot, can highly recomend them if you are not going to camp), and got to know the people in the units next to us - 4 brothers and their 8 or so kids (their wifes were left behind for this trip, I suspect so they could onsume the desired amounts of alcohol in a hassle free environment :twisted:).

Anyway, one morning we got up and decided the east coast of the island was just to windy to be enjoyable, so we took a drive over to Moons Point for the afternoon. Had a fun day fishing, kayaking and hooning on their jet ski, then set off back to the other side of the island again. They pulled over in their 2 cars to stuff around with seating arrangements for the kids, so we continued on. After a while we found a spot to pull over and stretch the legs while we waited for them - half an hour later they still hadn't appeared - we started to suspect they might be stuck somewhere, particularly as one of their cars was towing the jet ski and there were a few boggy stretches of sand that could have caused problems for them. We also knew they didn't have any recovery gear with them.

So we decided to go back and see if they needed any help - bad move :o We had back tracked maybe 2 k's when they came tearing around a corner. Anyone who's been on the Fraser tracks knows they're only wide enough for 1 car. My old man was driving and came to a stop pretty much straight away, but when the other guys slammed on their brakes the lead car, towing the jet ski, just kept plowing through the sand. Luckily he was able to steer of to the side and instead of a head on with us he had a head on with a tree. He hit hard enough to bend his bull bar back on the front right side - his bull bar, grill, front right panel, lights and spotties were all stuffed. Surpisingly his airbags didn't go off, but thankfully no-one was hurt - I don't think all the kids had belts on so they were very lucky.

The car was still driveable, and we all went back to the Happy Valley pub to sooth the nerves - my parents were particularly shaken even though we were untouched. It turned out that they had in fact been stuck while we had been waiting for them, and a tour bus had ended up pulling them out. The driver of the car that crashed said he hadn't been expecting anyone heading the other way at that time (late afternoon), so was obviously surprised to see us coming around a corner - they weren't upset though, we had been going back to help them out afer all.

Maybe we should have just adopted a "don't give a stuff" attitude and not gone back looking for them ...

PAT303
21st November 2007, 02:52 PM
How many times is that going to happen when they close the beach? Pat

weeds
21st November 2007, 03:05 PM
If they were good enough to let you use there jetskis than I would have done the same and gone back to see if they needed a hand

If the other car was driving to fast for the condidtions.....his fault

If the kids were not wearing seatbelts......that's just dumb

No recovery gear....just as dumb

My new rule for up the beach is if the other driver does not want to lower there tyre pressures, I don't offer to recover (happened to me once...the guy said there was no need)

My other rule is if they don't have there own recovery gear, depends on the situation..is the car in danger, are they holding up heaps of others etc I consider it if they have put in some effort but I make them feel bad for not having recovery gear....I have driven away from one saying I didn't have recovery gear either mainly because of his attitude

mojo
21st November 2007, 04:03 PM
We felt a bit guilty about the accident for a while, but the more we thought about it we realised we were not in the wrong. As you say Weeds, they should have had their own recovery gear. Not sure if they were going too fast - they were definitely going faster than us, but they also had 500kg plus of jet ski pushing them along when they hit the brakes. Given that they weren't expecting any traffic ciming the other way, maybe they were pushing it a bit much ...

RonMcGr
21st November 2007, 04:03 PM
Well said, Kelvin

mojo
21st November 2007, 04:04 PM
Actually, I'm pretty sure they didn't lower their tyres either ...

HangOver
21st November 2007, 04:20 PM
We felt a bit guilty about the accident for a while, but the more we thought about it we realised we were not in the wrong. As you say Weeds, they should have had their own recovery gear. Not sure if they were going too fast - they were definitely going faster than us, but they also had 500kg plus of jet ski pushing them along when they hit the brakes. Given that they weren't expecting any traffic ciming the other way, maybe they were pushing it a bit much ...

If you can't stop in the distance that you can see you are going too fast IMHO more so if you are towing.
I wouldn't have any worries over it

cdrtravis
21st November 2007, 05:16 PM
Absolutely right weeds. I can't believe the driver who crashed said he wasn't expecting anyone to be coming the other way! What a weak excuse for driving irresponsibly.

twitchy
21st November 2007, 05:48 PM
You done the right thing by going back & I wouldn't feel to bad about the bent vehicle.

Frenchie
22nd November 2007, 07:26 AM
The driver of the car that crashed said he hadn't been expecting anyone heading the other way at that time

Assumptions like that obviously cause accidents! :o

mojo
22nd November 2007, 08:25 AM
Absolutely right weeds. I can't believe the driver who crashed said he wasn't expecting anyone to be coming the other way! What a weak excuse for driving irresponsibly.

His reasoning was that he used to be a tour bus driver on the island, so he knew when the barges left from Moons Point I guess - at that time of the arvo he knew that there were no more barges for the day so he assumed there shouldn't be anyone heading to that side of the island.

As Frenchie said, a dangerous assumption ...

Killer
22nd November 2007, 01:33 PM
His reasoning was that he used to be a tour bus driver on the island, so he knew when the barges left from Moons Point I guess - at that time of the arvo he knew that there were no more barges for the day so he assumed there shouldn't be anyone heading to that side of the island.

As Frenchie said, a dangerous assumption ...

Maybe that's why he used to be a tour bus driver!

Cheers, Mick.

29dinosaur
22nd November 2007, 02:51 PM
No backfiring ... it's not you who have mud or gunpowder on their face. It's the other driver for hooning to catch up. Don't lose any sleep over it. Bent vehicles can be fixed... thankfully nobody was injured.

CraigE
22nd November 2007, 09:26 PM
Its not really a problem. They are not blaming you and you did the right thing going back to help and should do so every time. Especially if you have been socialising with them.
They should have been driving to conditions.