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JDNSW
10th May 2008, 06:43 PM
This afternoon, rather unexpectedly, I became a grandfather for the fourth time, although maybe not for long. Born at 1538 by emergency caesarean, 1.21kg and reported to be "doing well" in neonatal intensive care, after 29 weeks. Mother is "as well as can be expected" but is blaming herself for things going wrong. Both are in Canberra Hospital, mum expected to be out in a week, baby will not be released until the due date (27th July) all going well.
Depending on how things go I expect to be going to Yass for an indefinite time no later than next Wednesday.
John
Disco_owner
10th May 2008, 06:45 PM
Congratulation on becoming a Grand Dad for 4th Time John , :twobeers:
Hope all goes well for the Mother and a Speedy Recovery.
Lucus
10th May 2008, 06:45 PM
Congratulations and i hope mum and jnr both come through okay:)
LR V8
10th May 2008, 07:04 PM
Congrats John !
I'll keep your family in my prayers.
Pete
EchiDna
10th May 2008, 07:09 PM
not too many problems once they get to 26 weeks these days John, my first was born at 28 weeks and was out of hospital in 6 weeks. he was just 1.16kg at birth... and no eyesight, hearing or other problems - essentially well within range for everything when he was 8 months old :)
abaddonxi
10th May 2008, 07:10 PM
Phew, congratulations, 29 weeks.
Cheers
Simon
LandyAndy
10th May 2008, 07:24 PM
Congradulations John.
Hope all goes well for mum and the bub,all the best.
Andrew
incisor
10th May 2008, 07:27 PM
best wishes to mother and hope all goes well for the wee soul..
ellard
10th May 2008, 08:32 PM
Hi there
Congradulations John - hope all is going well....
All the best
Wayne
RichardK
10th May 2008, 08:54 PM
Congratulations John, I hope it all comes through OK
cookiesa
10th May 2008, 09:01 PM
Congratulations our thoughts and prayers are with you (our twins were born the equivalent of 25 & 26 weeks gestation and are fine now with only minor health issues!)
George130
10th May 2008, 09:58 PM
Congrats JD.
If you need anything let us know.
Hope all goes well.
Stepho_62
11th May 2008, 06:48 AM
Hey JDNSW
This little ratbag was born @ 29 weeks and weighed 1138g. Now hes the coolest little guy around.
I hope you get a great result like we did.
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JDNSW
11th May 2008, 08:19 AM
Hey JDNSW
This little ratbag was born @ 29 weeks and weighed 1138g. Now hes the coolest little guy around.
I hope you get a great result like we did.
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That's a good looking one for sure. Good chance of it surviving - after all both the parents were premature and weighed little more than this one, and that was over thirty years ago. (The three older girls were full term and had no problems).
John
Blknight.aus
11th May 2008, 10:35 AM
congrats mate and tell the parents and yourself to ease up on the panic button..
Life has this nasty habit of wanting to keep a tenacious grip on itself. The little tackers got his foot in the door and hes got a bunch of people holding it open for him so the decks stacked in his favor.
Bush65
11th May 2008, 03:38 PM
Congratulations John. And very best wishes for your daughter and grandchild.
Captain_Rightfoot
11th May 2008, 05:34 PM
WOW John, I hope it goes well for Mum and Bub. They do amazing things with premature babies these days. :)
Sleepy
11th May 2008, 06:07 PM
Congratulations John,
Best wishes, hope all goes well. :):)
JDNSW
11th May 2008, 07:21 PM
Status at present - the new baby, Rachel, is still described as "very sick" but is improving rather than just holding her own or getting worse. She is no longer on a ventilator, but still has more wires and tubes than a TD5. The doctors advise that she has a 20% of brain damage and may have cerebral palsy, but this may be just giving the worst possible aspect.
I have just seen the first pictures of her. Very small, lots of wires, plenty of hair, but looks cute.
My d-i-l is up and walking around. Expecting to be out Thursday.
John
CraigE
11th May 2008, 08:25 PM
John,
Congratulations and I sincerely hope all goes well. Pass on our thought from the AULRO family to your family.
CraigE
JDNSW
12th May 2008, 06:47 AM
Latest news. The new baby, Rachel, had a crisis last night causing my son to rush into the hospital with the other kids just after midnight (he's still there). This morning she is in an induced coma on a ventilator and described as "stable", but with worries about blood pressure.
John
cookiesa
12th May 2008, 08:19 AM
Our prayers are with you and your family. We might be a long way away but if there is anything you or they need help with let us know, I'm sure between us something can be worked out.
EchiDna
12th May 2008, 08:20 AM
It can be scary John, but in the vast majority of cases it will get better quickly from between 3-10 days (so we were told when our first was born). Our son was an unbelivably good case as he was breathing by himself after 12 hours and just kept moving forwards daily. However this is not normal and you can expect many ups and downs on the road you are now on, a lot of two steps forward, three steps back kind of thing... the hospital should have some kind of support group there for families of premmie babies, it is an experience only others that have been there can relate to, so check that out if you can.
I still have vivid memories of my son with a needle in both hands, both feet, the respirator tube taped into his mouth, his body covered in sensors and the most incredible team of nurses who sat at the foot of his NICU "bed" 24 hours a day....photos of his hand next to my wedding ring where his wrist is smaller than the diameter of the ring, each joint of his fingers smaller than a grain of rice... you just feel so helpless and despairing... hence the need for some support - it should be there, for all your family
abaddonxi
12th May 2008, 08:41 AM
Oh John, :(
Best wishes
Simon
JDNSW
12th May 2008, 01:09 PM
I just got a call from Raymond. The baby has had a massive brain haemhorrage and they have been asked for permission to switch off life support.
John
XSiV
12th May 2008, 01:12 PM
That is terrible news, all our thoughts go your way for you and the rest of your family esp. D-I-L
Tote
12th May 2008, 01:32 PM
My condolences to you and the parents, it must be a terrible thing to go through.
Regards,
Tote
cookiesa
12th May 2008, 01:35 PM
Terrible news, our thoughts are with you. A decsion no parent wants to ever have to make.
ivery819
12th May 2008, 02:13 PM
John
Terrible news.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Peter
Sleepy
12th May 2008, 03:36 PM
john,
thinking of you and your family.
life can be tough
best wishes from the sleep family
EchiDna
12th May 2008, 10:05 PM
so sorry John,
will be in our prayers...
RichardK
12th May 2008, 10:11 PM
John, my deepest sympathy to you and the parents
Captain_Rightfoot
12th May 2008, 10:15 PM
Very very sad to hear, John.
Bush65
12th May 2008, 10:42 PM
John,
I really feel for you and your family at this sad time.
d3funct
13th May 2008, 04:46 AM
I'm so sorry to read this, John.
I lost my nephew at 5 months, due to development defects - sincere sympathy to you and your family.
JDNSW
13th May 2008, 05:18 AM
I am going to Yass and on to Canberra today, and my d-i-l's mother is on her way from Darwin. Life support will be withrawn this afternoon or evening after we are there. I will be staying tonight in accommodation at the hospital, so will be offline, and expect to stay in Yass for at least a week, possibly longer.
John
d3funct
13th May 2008, 05:24 AM
Treasure every moment with Rebecca.
She may have only graced your life for a few days, but she will always be in your memories.
CraigE
13th May 2008, 05:40 AM
Bugger John.
Our thoughts are with you in this very sad trying time. Words just can not say enough. Your AULRO family is here from you. Anything you need just ask.
All our love and best wishes are with you and your family.
Craig & Mel
George130
13th May 2008, 08:34 AM
Sorry to hear things have gone that way.
Offer still stands if you need anything.
JDNSW
13th May 2008, 04:55 PM
I am now in Yass but will not go into Canberra tonight - switching off has been delayed until the other girls are at school tomorrow. They have been in to farewell their sister after school this afternoon.
John
Pedro_The_Swift
13th May 2008, 05:01 PM
I'm sorry John,, I just dont have the words--
but I'm here,,,
timaus13
13th May 2008, 06:02 PM
All our Prayers are with you and all of your family.
LandyAndy
13th May 2008, 07:52 PM
So sorry to hear that John.
We are all here for you.
Andrew
Anya45
14th May 2008, 08:50 AM
Oh John, cannot express how sorry we are...:(
Hayley & Peter
JDNSW
14th May 2008, 07:35 PM
Rachel died this afternoon at about 2pm after life support was switched off, with her parents both present (I was minding the 2yo). She has become the first baby organ donor at Canberra Hospital. (Her grandmother died while waiting for a lung transplant).
John
Sleepy
14th May 2008, 07:46 PM
vale Rachel
"from little things, big things grow"
Blknight.aus
14th May 2008, 07:53 PM
urrrm...
condolences... I cant offer much else but what Ive got to offer if you need it its yours..
rovercare
14th May 2008, 07:55 PM
:(:(:(
Captain_Rightfoot
14th May 2008, 09:35 PM
Sincere condolences John. Congratulations on the wonderful decision to donate. That is just amazing.
ellard
14th May 2008, 10:11 PM
Sorry to hear there John but congratulations on the wonderful decision to donate
All the best
Wayne & Melenee
JDNSW
15th May 2008, 05:37 AM
The decision to donate was made by the mother, but approved by all members of the family. She was the first one to think of it.
There have apparently been previous cases at Canberra where parents have offered to donate their baby's organs, but until recently the hospital has not had the facilities to do so, or at least this is what we were told.
Again, thank you all for your sympathy.
John
Scallops
15th May 2008, 07:42 AM
May peace be with you and family at this time, John
best wishes,
Dan.
XSiV
15th May 2008, 08:04 AM
Condolences John, such a sad turn of events and such a wonderful gesture that for someone it seems there may be a good outcome. Our thoughts are with you an your family.
Josh
ivery819
15th May 2008, 08:37 AM
John
Such a very brave and noble decision in terrible circumstances.
Your family not only has my sincere condolences but also my deepest admiration.
Peter
Bushwanderer
15th May 2008, 11:18 AM
Hi John,
While Rachel's death is extremely sad, she not only rests in peace, but has given life to others. What a special memory,
Best Wishes,
Peter
George130
15th May 2008, 07:38 PM
Sorry to hear the news. Our thoughts are with you.
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