"Responsibility: A detachable burden easily shifted to the shoulders of God, Fate, Fortune, Luck or one's neighbor. In the days of astrology it was customary to unload it upon a star."
Ambrose Bierce, The Devil's Dictionary
As a ten year old I was naive in my knowledge of drugs, bomb-assembly, hard-core porn, fetishes and the like. I benefitted from a pre-Rudd filter called Mum and Dad. They taught me right from wrong, responsibility/consequences, stranger danger, common sense and how to survive and flourish in the big, bad world. They were the gatekeepers at the front door of our home, nurturing, protecting and educating me.
Fast forward 40 odd years in Australia and what do we find? Mum and Dad either unable or unwilling to perform this very gatekeeper role. On one hand we have the civil liberties of responsible, informed adults being stifled by increasing external regulation (government, lobby groups, experts etc) and on the other, irresponsible, incapable parents thriving despite the ever-increasing list of rules, regulation and intervention.
Have the bad eggs destroyed the social pavlova? You bet.
As a parent, I have very specific guidelines for internet use by my 10 year old. Her computer is in plain view. I monitor the sights she visits, am aware of her passwords and have taught her not only to never give personal information online but also to notify me of “weird” stuff she encounters. Alas, I am adult, parent and filter all in one. Just as I wouldn’t let her get into a stranger's car, I wouldn’t let a stranger into her room through the internet.
Unfortunately, not everyone sees it this way. “It’s your room/ I’m busy/It won’t happen here/I don’t understand it myself/Great, computer as babysitter”, are all examples of this approach. This is the approach which has grown the monster which is the government’s current social reform agenda. We are now in a position where the government sees its’ role to gate-keep on our behalf. Be it your child’s education, computer, diet, access arrangements, alcohol consumption or driving privileges, the government has a say.
This is the growing shame of modern parenting.
We have allowed legislation to encroach on our civil liberties because we have forgotten that hand in hand with our rights and freedom comes individual responsibility.
If the speed of light = 299,792,458 m/s, what is the speed of dark?
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