Steve, When I did mine I did not remove the relay. I tried to do this method before I got hold of the other info that I posted here. I spent considerable time trying to find this relay and could not find it.
Mine is a 96 and it does what you said. Turn key on, light comes on, blinks once and then stays on until I drive off.
If your plug is the same as the picture it is an OBD2 connector.
Dave.
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