There is very few people who have tried any of the aftermarket options, so at this stage is still a bit of a gamble.
If you search, you will find plenty of information elsewhere about that.
There is a strong school of thought though that the manifold should only warp once. So once it's warped if you have the face surface redone you should be able to leave the webs and they will help keep it in place.
I believe that ceramic coating will help, but it's hard to do on used items as they've got to be cleaned thoroughly so that it will stick. Ideally you want to get a brand new manifold coated straight away before fitting.

