Originally Posted by 
DiscoMick
				 
			Here are some of the things I have found important, so I hope they help. 
My approach is not to stuff around with shortcuts,  but to fix it right the first time, as it's cheaper in the long run. 
Does yours have rear air suspension and does it keep it level when towing? If you don't have rear air get airbags in the rear springs. If you have it but it's not working properly get it fixed. 
The auto and transfer case should be thoroughly serviced with fresh oil,  make sure the filter inside the auto is replaced and  if the gears are slipping get that fixed. An auto oil cooler is an excellent idea. 
The cooling system will need a thorough test and don't hesitate to replace hoses or the core if it shows even the slightest problem,  as it's cheap insurance. 
You might want to get gauges fitted for engine and exhaust gas temperatures. 
The brakes will be working harder so they need a thorough service. You will need a good brake controller such as Redarc or Tekonsha if you don't already have it. Get the van's brakes serviced too. 
Are your wheel bearings, axles,  flanges and CVs up to the extra load? 
Only after all those are done would I start seeking more power. If the basics are not right then more power might just make the problems worse. 
You might also consider a dual reversing camera with a second camera on the back of the van to make reversing easier. 
Also,  maybe a set of 6 tyre pressure warning system to warn about deflating tyres. 
Do you have wider mirrors to see around the van?
As was said above, check you have a jack which can actually lift the van. 
Towing puts extra pressure on tyres,  so make sure they are up to the job.
BTW I didn't tow in third auto in our D1 but I did intervene more frequently to manually pull it down to avoid lugging. Find the sweet spot in the revs and use the shifter to keep in that range, I recommend.