Hmm... A lot of food for thought there. Tombie may be right about a changeover not being much more expensive than mods.
My wife came up with another option.... contact the trailer manufacturers. They might have a different solution that could be fitted and then plated by them.
Really if the wheels came forward a tad, and the ball socket got lowered, the whole thing would be fine then. Tomorrow I'm going fishing to forget about it all.... thank god I still have the ute. :)
Monday I will hop back on the phone and see what the Trailer mob say and then maybe Hayman Reece.
I really do appreciate all the advice you guys have offered. I think you have every one of you been correct in what you said, and it all was very helpful.

