I'd go along with this method too. Let the filler wire melt to bridge between your pool on the base material and the top piece. As you form your main pool, watch the piece on top as it will heat quickly (as you've found) and alter the torch position and angle to control it. Once the bridge is formed, use a combination of torch position and the addition of filler wire to help control the heat.
If you need to you could try clamping a heavy piece of steel across the top of the job about 1" behind the area to be welded and running the length of the weld. This will act as a heat sink and reduce the likelihood of the top piece pooling away from the edge.
I've done similar welds when I constructed my ally boat loader for the roof of my Disco. I really didn't find these welds too difficult - probably had a lot to do with the hours of practice I did on scrap to get a feel for the machine.
My TIG has no fancy settings. The AC is a straight 50-50 balance at 60Hz - no option to change. I think this worked in my favour as I had nothing to fiddle with except my technique.
Lots of practice ...

