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					Im sorry this has happened, I went through a traumatic breakup a few years ago but thank god there were no children involved (only hairy four legged ones)
 
She should be helping financially... if you had done the runner you'd be the worst person in the world if you weren't contributing child support, why is it different for her?  She should be made to backpay...
				
			 
			
		 
			
				
			
				
			
			
			
		 
	 
	
	
 
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                                                27th December 2012, 01:46 PM
                                        
                                
                                
                                        
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					Mate, sorry to hear of your recent troubles....equally delighted to hear the good news story of the people at DHL.
 
I have seen your Defender often in the local area. Is there anything we can do to help out?
				
			 
			
		 
			
				
			
			
			
		 
	 
	
	
 
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                                                27th December 2012, 10:26 PM
                                        
                                
                                
                                        
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					good to see there are still some caring people in the world. I am sorry about what has happened to you but I am glad there has been some good.
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                                                30th December 2012, 01:46 PM
                                        
                                
                                
                                        
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					My 2nd wife and I are both 're-cycled' as we like to say, much better this time around, I reckon you have to go through the bad to get to the good stuff.
Best wishes for the New Year from NZ
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                                                30th December 2012, 02:19 PM
                                        
                                
                                
                                        
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					Again, thanks to all. I have been on forum and received some very kind pm's, however after my original post I am actually feeling embarrassed by the response. It's not a nice time for my girl's and myself. The generosity of DHL and all your kind words have been appreciated. 
I am normally a very shy person and opening up like this especially on the internet has not been easy.
I don't want to say bad things about my wife. We aren't divorced, only separated, by her choice. She has moved out. I/we are really hoping for a reversal, that she comes back to us. I'll have her back in a heartbeat. 
Financially and emotionally this is tough times. but hopefully it will pass over and come good again.
Thanks again
Kenley
				
			 
			
		 
			
				
			
			
			
		 
	 
	
	
 
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                                                30th December 2012, 02:56 PM
                                        
                                
                                
                                        
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					The hardest part is 'moving on' so to speak, and the reason behind this is while ever you live in hope then so will the girls.  It is amazing how much children sense your emotions and hang off of every more you make.
I truly do hope it all works out for you and the girls, but please don't live your life on that hope.  It's never easy facing reality and it hurts like hell late at night when the kids are in bed and you've got too much time to think.  But you've already shown that you are strong enough to do what's required.
Good luck mate and well done on your efforts so far.
Cheers
Chris
				
			 
			
		 
			
				
			
			
			
		 
	 
	
	
 
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                                                30th December 2012, 05:34 PM
                                        
                                
                                
                                        
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					What the world needs...is men (Fathers..) who are passionate/motivated about whatever floats their boats...  Not trying to fill the  (perceived)  needs of the world or Society,  or Family members...
If this New You interests your Wife, well thats a bonus. 
  -  If not, it was'nt going to happen anyway but you will be so much better equipped to deal with that sadness.
- The kids will appreciate and respond to  your  leadership.
From a broken home in my childhood. Been there-done that.
				
			 
			
		 
			
				
			
			
			
		 
	 
	
	
 
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                                                30th December 2012, 06:32 PM
                                        
                                
                                
                                        
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					geez mate, i too like yourself kept my separation to myself, easy to say now but in hind sight i should have talk too others a bit more than i did
when i sold you the kelly kettle and you mention you couldn't afford to pick up your defer you still paid me.....man what was i thinking, from memory you were in a rush now i understand why
the thing that annoys me now is the kelly kettle was given to me by kelly kettle so i should have passed it on at no cost.....
if you need a hand or a chat drop us a line or come over......don't be a stranger
				
			 
			
		 
			
				
			
			
			
		 
	 
	
	
 
		
		
		
	
 
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
		
		
		
		
			
				
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