Both my parents recently went into a nursing home. My 87 YO fath suffered spinal injuries at 84 and was confined to an electric wheel chair. My 82 YO mother is suffering some level of Altzeimers, is rather frail and even with 14 hours/week of in home support was unable to properly care for dad, particularly when he fell out of the chair. Mum's licence has been revoked because of the Az and we live out of town with no public transport. My folks are asset rich cash poor but unable to divide off land from their property because of zoning laws and they are not entitled to a pension even though they both worked full time (and paid tax) into their late 70s.
The option for me and the family were bleak, I could resign my employment move onto the farm and attempt to survive on a carer's pension until we had to sell the farm and home out from under ourselves.
Now they are in the nursing home it costs us $60,000 per year for their care and its nothing special.
It is the worst of all choices, but I could still not consider euthanasia.
Diana



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