Hard to tell where your own kids interests are going to take them, if your own youth is any guide.
A soft roader will be a good all round compromise, but from my experience, for not much beyond poorly maintained public dirt roads, sand drifts and maybe beach. In 2012 took a work mate in his then new Grand Vitara and my old Disco 1, both bog standard, to a spot on the upper Adelaide River. Was a very mild bush track. On return to the main road we found the Vitara rear fender was torn off its steel bracing on the bottom edge and the nudge bar via its chassis mounts had been pushed into the bonnet! Just no worthwhile ground clearance for even the easy stuff. Front suspension was very limited, with traction control having to be coaxed into action. I think it had dual range, but you wonder why?
I resolved the vehicle issue for my daughter and son by getting them a cheap Disco1 Tdi each. Prado or Pajero would have been nice, but too much for my pocket, plus rust. No garage room for so many vehicles - who cares if the Disco spends all year outside in the weather. Having 'twisted' my daughters arm a little over the issue also means she now has some savings!!!!
Work mate had a Wrangler, maybe 2006-ish. Nice to drive with the top down, but limited fuel range (fuel consumption combined with smallish tank) and limited carrying capacity. The new four doors look the role as a serious 4x4, although what is with the park bench that doubles as a front fender?
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