How's he going?
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How's he going?
Hope he has good strong close family do try to deal with this on his behalf?
I have worked for many couples from these arrangements ... and I can say from experience that most of the ones I have known are way different to each other at home than they are in public .. Nothing would surprise me !
but ...
Sad story mate .. I really hope she gets what is truly coming to her .
Ken is OK he is coming over tomorrow. She has backed off with the separation BS as she lost her pension. She made a big fool of herself and had to be removed from Centerlink by security as she was so peed off that his pension was not going into her account anymore. She tried to reverse the pension not going into her account, but her tantrum stopped that they refused.
She has been demanding his money ever since telling him how much things cost and how she needs the money. She stopped his Foxtel telling him it costs too much. I told him how to put it back on and I told him not to give her his pension ans ask her to show him any bill that arrived and to pay half.
I wish he was safe in a place he was happy, but I cant make him leave he is very old and worried.
The main thing is he has his mates and people to call and advice, we cant give him much more. He knows he can come here if he needs to and myself and his other friend have told him he has somewhere else to live forever if he needs. We speak every day in the end it is his decision.
I am trying to find his daughter for him, they fell out over something silly a few years back , but he needs her now.
Chris
As you say you cant do much more than that.
He now has options and support. and she has well and truly shown her colors.
Maybe he will make amove in a few weeks or months once he has chewed on it all for a while.
You are a good friend!
He has been a great mate to me over the years, anyone would do the same.Quote:
Originally Posted by edddo
Chris