Im finding that incompetent people seem to have the idea that I'm supposed to be nice to them all the time, especially when they're busy whining about how its not fair of me to call them incompetent. People who are actually good at their jobs seem to have no problem with the way I interact with them.
Id have thought that the better way to not have grumpy buggers like me upsetting you by being bluntly honest about your abilities would be instead of using the time you spend complaining about how you were spoken to and researching ways to make my reactions to your lack of ability my problem just getting on and getting better at your job so I'd have no reason to be concerned about your ability (or lack thereof) and its impact on my life.

