I can only echo what has already been said.
All the best,
Rodney
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I can only echo what has already been said.
All the best,
Rodney
As above, terribly sorry to hear that news.
We’re always here if you need us mate
John, although I don't know you your story has touched me.
Your words at the beginning about family and the roles of social media, the political agenda being persued resonate with me. There are so many people bad situations thst need help, support, guidance.
John, dont put yourself down. We all make mistakes, I have made some really bad ones and I understand when you say it is lonely. But, what your have been doing for your mum is nothing short of heroic, even if you dont feel that. And I know that you will pour your generosity to your Jan in the time you have together.
Remember to be kind to yourself, you are doing everything you can.
My wife and I will pray for you and your family.
Good luck
Rod
So sad to hear this. No words can make it right. Cherish the time you have and hang onto the good memories.
Don't personally know you John, but am aware of the pain of loss. Thoughts are with you brother.
John,
So sad to read your news....
I have a horrible habit of being an optimist, I always try to find something good, no matter how crap life feels.
It's never going to make it right.... or make it seem fair, but the one positive I can see in your terrible news, it seems like a good thing Jan was able to take that trip with her daughter....
Make the most of your time.... focus on the present rather than the future....
I can't even start to understand how you must be feeling, but we are here when you need us ... [bigsad]
An absolute tragedy. Wishing you well.
Update. MyAgedCare came through today with a higher level of care for Mum, which is a huge relief.
I brought Jan home today from hospital. Now, we need to live. Time's a'wasting.
I want to thank you all for listening, and for your support. It has been a great help, and I would encourage anyone who has personal issues or traumas to speak out. You will find that you are among friends.
Could a moderator please close this thread?
At 9:45 PM, yesterday, 16/01/2018, my lovely soul mate, Jan, passed away in my arms.
I want to thank everyone for their support.
John.
Very sorry for your loss John.Quote:
Originally Posted by johntins
Rest in peace Jan.
Cheers Ean