2007 Subaru forester (my current ride), only failure to date has been the thrust bearing lever. 197000km.
2012 Nissan x trail (wifes Ride) Had anew engine and transmission at 40000 km under warranty caused by a stuck thermostat, This is when we purchased the vehicle, It come with warranty, I new the owners and paid well under normal retail price. we had been looking for one for about 12 months. It now has 184000km and hasn't missed a beat.
I believe both these vehicle would reach your specs, I think the forester is the better tow vehicle maybe because its manual
cheers
blaze

