It sounds like your wife has a sound and wise approach to the situation..... How about N's sisters, mother, aunt, .... espec women she can confide in. She will be feeling unclean herself, and for her poor daughters. There will be anger - she needs someone beside her in some form - sometimes a 'professional', sometimes a close friend, sometimes her minister&his wife if she has connections with a church etc - If your wife has N confidence, can your wife supply meals, do something like place some flowers around the house, etc etc. Remember though she and her girls need space as well, so don't smother. My heart bleeds for her and for her daughters (I have 3 now grown up). (I have seen this type of evilness within families before and with a grandfather of a family I knew, who abused hsi grandchildren. The heart, mind, will and emotions of some people seems to be totally seered. He will and should have his day of judgement before the civil magistrate and before God...)
The question why this occurs and why we never pick up on it will never be answered, guess its like a cleptomaniac , they dont know why they steal its just that they have too, something tells them too do it, rockys are in the same boat I think, Its not even worth trying to get your mind around it,
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My kids, I would eradicate the moron.
However in your position keep objective for a while, until it is confirmed. Nothing worse than condeming someone only to find out later they did not do it.
Not saying you should talk or help him at all. Just do not get to emotionally involved. Support the mother and kids as best you can until a positive determination has been made.
I have seen both sides where someone has done it and should be strung up and the flip side where the thought was continually put into a childs head by the mother in a divorce case until the young child believed it happened. In the end the father got custody.
There is no reason to doubt the kids and I would believe them and suport them but just tread carefully.
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SubscriberAssuming 100% guilty, have nothing to do with him. A bullet is too good for scum like this.
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I cannot believe the comments that have been made here.
Do we want to be a communist nation and shoot before both sides have been voiced in a proper court of law?
Next thing we will have the death penalty for every offence.
Just support those in need, both sides of the coin, or is Australia's British heritage still rife ..... expelled for steeling a loaf of bread?
My version, although I do not condone child molesting at all.
Wizard
SubscriberI fail to see what bit you're struggling with....or don't you have kids?Originally Posted by barryj
If ANYONE messes with children in this way, they deserve stringing up and being left to die slowly. If we had a death sentence for this type of crime, as well as other very serious ones, we might have less people doing them (and certainly less repeat offenders!).
I'm glad you mentioned the UK - I've just come from there, and let me tell you, crime is through the roof after more than 10 years of a soft, lefty government that likes lenient sentences and removing the rights of the public to defend themselves, and the mob before not being much better in their last years of power.
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SubscriberYep, that we are.All this just tells me one thing....
human beings, as intelligent as we think we are, are purely and simply just animals
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Take you "mate" camping with nothing but a rifle and a shovelsend him my way
Sith is a "boner" by trade and I have a 44gal drum already..
Those kids will be ****ed over for their whole lives while he'll get 10yrs out in 5yrs...all because of the do gooders
Ultimate crime deserves the D.PenaltyI fail to see what bit you're struggling with....or don't you have kids?
If ANYONE messes with children in this way, they deserve stringing up and being left to die slowly. If we had a death sentence for this type of crime, as well as other very serious ones, we might have less people doing them (and certainly less repeat offenders!).
I'm glad you mentioned the UK - I've just come from there, and let me tell you, crime is through the roof after more than 10 years of a soft, lefty government that likes lenient sentences and removing the rights of the public to defend themselves, and the mob before not being much better in their last years of power.
Need I say more? Just read the comments for yourself.
Yes I do have children, one Boy and two Girls.
AT REST
Mate as most of the posts have suggested all you can do is be there for the wife an kids.....ready to help in any way they need from a shoulder to cry on or a cooked meal....
as for the spider well I have a shovel, or wouldn't mind
a boat trip
these sorts of crimes GUILTY until proved INNOCENT
Tony
We are averaging one email a day from him and some of his comments are just rediculous, we forward the emails on and she pretty much is getting angrier by the day, now she has one his workers who is ringing and abusing her, that wont be happening anymore as I got hold of him today we had a talk, hes been officially warned off, there is only one warning he wont get a second, he was put up to it by the rocky, he drove by the house today and hes already in breach of his order, the Police can handle them far as I am concerned, I would be only to happy to rock and roll this ratbag but its not going to help her or further my cause.
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