We have a family of 2+2 and use a bushman fridge - THE BUSHMAN 12 VOLT FRIDGE FREEZER FOR CAMPING & FOUR WHEEL DRIVE
The fridge can be used in 3 configurations: 35L, 42L, or 52L. We invariably use it in the 52L configuration. Could easily get away with smaller, however that would probably mean sacrificing some of the beer.
For the last 3 years, we have run it without a second battery in the D3. We used the sort of methods mentioned above (temp lower while traveling and higher overnight, etc...) It does work, but I have never been comfortable. Recently I installed the traxide DBS with yellow top battery. I reckon the system is fantastic, and if you can afford to do it, then it is a far better solution. Especially when you are spending more than 1 night somewhere!!!
On the subject of the bushman fridge, I do not know if it is better or worse than an engel or other brands, but we have been very happy with it. We have it running permanently in the house when not in the D3, and apart from the on/off switch being a little dodgy (I bridged it out because it is not needed anyway) it has not missed a beat in about 5 years.
umm. and once you have a fridge, there is no way you can go back to an esky.
Cheers,
Matt.

