Hard to say. Certainly 3 tonne is better setup than 3.5 tonne. It could be that your vehicle/trailer has some attributes favouring better stability ( shorter hitch overhang, lower yaw inertia, longer distance between hitch point and trailer axle).
I guess there will always be exceptions.... but I dont think this undermines the science. Just like the existance of a 98 year old smoker does not make smoking safe.

