Thanks for all your responses.
So in summary, eDiff is very unlikely to be useful, given our intended usage, and while it is reputed to be stronger, the std diff has shown itself to be sufficient for towing.
The extra luxuries of the Landmark or HSE Luxury can be nice, especially given we plan to do many km's in this car to different parts of the country.
Time to talk turkey with the dealer. Wish me luck!
... and no, my wife's name is not Dave :-) Nice one!

