As has been said already, be very careful about claims regarding any other 18" wheels, both for capacity but also legality, eg offset.
No you won't get GOE wheels at short notice but if you have a read right through some of those threads I posted earlier here for you (post#6), you'll see that people have successfully done that type of trip and bigger on various 19" tyres, including at least one person who posted that he did a long trip on the stock tyres! (I forget exactly which thread).
As has been mentioned, it's all about driving to the conditions and getting the tyre pressure right, which is higher for 19s than 18s or 17s.
It seems people go wrong with 19s when they lower the pressure too much.
Also consider getting an extra spare tyre or even wheel & tyre.
Carrying at least a second spare tyre will see you mobile again sooner compared to waiting for one to be shipped to wherever.
In short, it's been done. It sounds like you're worrying too much.
Cheers,
Scott

