Hi All,
I've had D4's since Jan 2010 but haven't towed anything of much weight until recently. Previously I was aware of clunk noises and movement which I assumed were just due to the (loose) connecting metal parts of chassis-LR kit-tongue and ball to trailer hitch. Other than that no issue.
I recently hired a twin axel (leaf sprung) Jayco Expanda that weighed about 2 T loaded. I'd changed wheels to my GOE 18s with 285/60/18 Cooper LTZs as I didn't trust the OEM Wranglers on gravel roads. I ran (according to my monitors) at 40 front and 45 back once everything warmed up ... those temps stayed stable regardless of surface or speed. It bounced quite a bit on anything but the best tar surface and my car has only done 40,000Klms ....so I'm not thinking shocks or air springs. It didn't affect the handling at all but was just a different feel to the car unloaded .... which I would have expected.
If that's not supposed to be happening, I'd say the van weight distribution or van suspension system is the issue. I guess unless you own the van you haven't got the option to experiment. At low ks I doubt it's the D4.
Kev.

