I rang the dealer again and they put me on to the technician who fits the trailer brake controllers. He told me the plug is not available in Australia so when he does an install he cuts the wires at the back of the plug and hard wires the Redarc into the factory wiring.
With one exception. He said the factory power wire goes to a 30amp fuse which means no trailer brakes if the fuse blows. He said he runs a new power wire to the battery via an auto reset circuit breaker. This seems to make sense so I plan to follow his advice. I will order a plug from the US as suggested.

