Any of the bikes mentioned would be good, it will depend on what the two of you want, our daughter has a CRF 230L, great bike, will be selling soon as it doesn't get used like my TTR250, which we sold recently, great bike while I had it, the TTRs are around 120/30kg dry weight.
If the CRF 250L is as good as the 230L then I would consider that as well, they should be around that 120/30kg dry weight as well, seat height is 875mm, the 230 seat height is 810mm and weighs 113kg.
Look at this sight for specs on anything you may want.
Honda CRF 230L

