Crump, I've got a Sure Power Seperator Model 1314. I assume it's the same as yours.
Years ago, it failed on me. Both batteries were completely drained.
The original unit did get hot - exactly as you describe. I don't think the current one I have gets hot at all - and has been fine for about 3 years.
Have you got a multi-meter? Test that it works as it should - if you have the original instructions it will tell you how to test it. If you don't have the original insturctions, they are definitely on the SurePower website (www.surepower.com).
I tested mine by connecting it all up, then measuring the voltage of both batteries. They should be seperated at this point. Turn on the headlights, and check that the voltage of the main battery has dropped a little. The aux should not have dropped. Then start the car. Once the alternator puts out over 13 odd volts (can't remember the exact figure the SurePower seperator parallels them at), it will parallel the batteries. Test the voltage again of both batteries - they should be higher and indicate that charging is occuring.
When you stop the car, if you leave the headlights on, you should hear the seperator click and disconnect the batteries.
Not sure if my description is clear (never was good at explaining stuff).
Let me know if you want more details etc or if you want me to check if mine gets hot etc.
Pete
