Karen realy upset now as we where the ones pushing her to get a job & now this has happend ...
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Karen realy upset now as we where the ones pushing her to get a job & now this has happend ...
Wow! I'm really sorry about that.
As if you didn't have enough problems anyway.
Wish I could offer some advice.
I think Karen is right Jas,if she has a word with him,it will hopefully make him feel like the **** that he is and appologise
Answer my PM Banjo.
Are the chef and the owner the same? If not, a quiet word to the owner from the mother of the young staff member, not rude but just making the point that this behaviour is unacceptable, might be a good idea. The owner should realise this chef could get him in a LOT of trouble with the authorities, who do not take this stuff lightly.
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Originally Posted by DiscoMick
Thanks Mick
Yeah there are differant people but they are brothers..
OK well Micayla does not want to go back she is surposed to work friday night & we don't want to push the matter but in saying that i will give use a little history on it..
When Micayla started school we didn't have a car so we put her in the closest school to us which was a catholic school which was great it was only a small school with about no more that 90 kids in it, Now this was great for her as she had a fairly sheltered life till then as it was when i was realy bad..
So she goes to school normal for some years then her Brother Cody Started , Now he was a real boy from birth into everything & realy outgoing as we had a car by this time so he got to go out more then fred..So he was there at the same school for about 3 years i think.
Then we started having trouble with the school because being so small money talks so alot of the well off kids where getting away with what ever they wanted , so after a huge clash with the head nun we moved the kids to a school just up the road from us as we had moved house so this was good .
The new scholl was a public school with a couple of hundred kids , it was very much a learning curve for both of them. Since fred is older most of the girls in her year had already had boyfriends & beleave it or not some had even started to be sexualy active :eek: HUGE shock for us...
So this goes on & they are learning in school there school work but also getinga life lesson aswell..
Well when fred started year 6 last year of primary in NSW she had been asked out by a boy she turned him down & he just kept trying unknown to us he was very bad & wouldn't leave fred alone but she was dealing with it ..
Well at the end of the year the dance was on & fred said she wanted to go we thought great because she needs to do things with her friends..
So Karen walks her up & says that she will be there to walk her home whenits finished..
Well when Karen gets there to pick her up Fred is no where to be seen & a couple of her friends came running up to Karen & said Fred is in the toilets crying so Karen goes in to see ..
Well it turns out the turd that asked her out was all over her at the dance in her personal space & touching her ,arms butt & stroking her hair.. & just wouldn't leave her alone ..
So Karen brings her home & rocks up at the school next morning to sort it out & the princable is fumed & so are the teachers & they did something about it & made sure this kids never got near her so was good, Then it was xmas hols & off to high school after.
Well this kid turns up at home while Karen & the kids are out shopping & asked me is this where Mrs ********* lives & i say yeah what the **** do you want oh he says i'm dillen i like your daughter & want to go out with her as she is my type quiet & shy , oh yeah i say, then he sees i have heaps of tattoo's & tells me that he wants to get plastered in them by this time i have told him he should run & maybe come back when Karen is home & see her..
Well then he starts turning up all the time . could i have a drink. then next time do you have a bandaid well i didn't allway see him as i was building the rover & was in the garage & had the door closed plus i was still doing my airbrushing on some bikes..
Finaly i tell the turd the ****off dont come back or i am going to hurt you..
Well he never comes back, GREAT..
But the Fred starts highschool & he starts stalking her big time so we off to the school to get it sorted & they did try but this ***** stiill kept goping so we desided to get the police well they went & seen him & nothing changed so we go back to the police & well the lady we seen said no worries i will fix it i will ring his mum & dad & tell them he has to come to the station with them..
So all this happens & it works cause she said to them if he does it again she would charge him..
So it stopped at school & out of school for awhile then he desides to turn up at our place again well that was it for me i grabed me bar & i'm off after him down the road got him hurt him he left with lumps in the back of his duds & a few brusses & some lumps & very very sore.. well that was the end of that. cause i knew he wouldn't go to the police but i also told him if he wants to tell his MUM & DAD go right ahead i have a bar with there name on it to..
NEVER HEARD FROM HIM OR THEM AGAIN..
nearly 2 years this went on..
Then Fred was off on the last few days of school & went shopping with Karen . this was last in year 8 the end of year 8..
Well they do the shopping & have finished & going through the checkout
When this older lady probably in her 50s comes walking out had a bag in one hand & some keys in the other so Fred moves out the way & then all hell breaks out Fred is screaming & crying , the lady grabed her on the boob realy hard & twists it & just keeps walking out , Well the staff at BiLo are awesome they got some of there boys to go out & look for her but she had gone they took Karen & fred out the back to a office , So the police are called But took some time to get there so Karen brought Fred home Then the police turn up at bilo took statements then came up to our house asked fred questions & took her statement then left to go back to bilo to get some more info & a copy of the videos from the cameras , we already had some sssshhhh dont tell anyone i dont think they are surposed to do that..
Then A few days later 2 detectives turn up from a speicial branch that is for kids ..They take a statement & tell us they have court the lady & she is in the James Fletcher hospital ( mental instutute) she has skitsafreania & had gone off her medication & she wouldn't be realesed from hospital for at least 6 months & fred was all good with that & was happy they court her but wasn't going to follow it threw to court as the lady was ill & in the mental hospital..
Just after this happened maybe 6 or 7 months thats when fred started to get panic attacks & couldn't get to school or go out ..
That when Ashley started to be a real friend to fred & helped get her out & about.
Karen & i are so greatfull to her for that. This is the girl we call our other daughter as she is always here (she has a bad home life to ) she calls us mum & dad to..She stayed with fred lastnight . she was one of the girls to have to start working there tonight ,She's not........
The shops down here at Cardiff we Karen & i & the kids are well known As most of the shop owners have watched the kids grow up & they all knew what happened & always asked us & fred if she was alright & now they keep an eye on them while they are down the road as now they go out on there own..
I used to work for some of the shops doing the servises on there personal cars & work cars on the cheap for them & it gace me some extra money.
Plus i did some panal work for some on there cars & painted them all up for them & we have helped fittout some shops if they where doing it on there own we would call in & just give them a hand .We did all the inside of the video shop a few years ago so they gave us free video rentals for a year that was nice..
So its like we say not only have we stuffed our lifes up bigtime we have done just about the same to the kids. Like Karen says great parents hey we are the ones to push her to goto work & then this happen.
Karen is out doing the groceries & she is real upset today keeps thinking she or we are bad parents..
I have been trying to tell her differant to no avail yet...
Fred is 15 turning 16 in august.....
I just finished hanging all the clothes on the line & i'm sure its going to bucket down any minute now..
I think we mite be renting a dryer this year...
Ive had an old girlfriend get intouch with me in the last few months & we now stay intouch ..
Its funny when she texts me as i tell Karen whats going on & what she been doing .& the look on the kids face when they found out she was an old girlfriend was to die for..Karen knows her to i used to work for her dad when i was at school & lost contact with her after i left so its been good to catch up..
Banjo, my 2 cents worth, I would not send her back there, they are totally unprofessional and forcing Fred to go back against her wishes will do her a lot of mental damage ( my opinion only). Why don't you approach groups like McDonalds for employment, they appear to have a good reputation with the young ones. Also KFC and Burger King employ the young ones on a casual basis!!!:)