Sounds like good news to me that you might have found a reason for Karen's feelings. Wise move going to the family doc. Good luck and really hope you get a good solution.
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Sounds like good news to me that you might have found a reason for Karen's feelings. Wise move going to the family doc. Good luck and really hope you get a good solution.
Just keep being positive Banjo and don't worry about things that might happen, but probably won't.
Remember, ultimately, our happiness doesn't depend on another person liking us - it only depends on us.
You have to wake up in the morning, look in the mirror, and like who you see. After that, everything else is an extra.
What do you think a thick Eiderdown parka, or Karen is for. Keep warmQuote:
Originally Posted by banjo
Nor me :o:o:oQuote:
Originally Posted by Ausfree
yes I am, only when it comes to dealing with a moody woman, or a bigger than me guy looking for a punch-up :oQuote:
Originally Posted by V8Ian
Ok this is where we are as of today, I took Karen to the doctors today he has taken 4 viles of blood to do tests for menapoors..He has give Karen medication as she is serveerly depressed & run down...
We have to go back on monday for the results of the blood test so we have already made the appointment for next monday....
I was talking to Jim on the phone earlier & was telling him i actualy sat in the waiting room with Karen till she went in as she didn't want me to go with her..
I even sat there the whole time she was in seeing the doc & giving blood , Probably about half an hour & it started to fill up & i just sat there till Karen came out, as soon as i seen her i was up & by her side as she was upset..
Now i haven't sat in the docs for over 20 years i usualy just stand at the door....
Proud of myself for that especialy since it started to get full....
I had to drag Karen out of bed today at lunch time & when i finaly got her in the shower i had to wash her she just stood there so down , it near killed me i tell you..
I have done this to Karen over the years .So have the kids & they have had a kick in the ass aswell....
I would be very surprised if anyone actualy knew how much Karen does for me plus running around for the kids...
Yes i have agerophobia bad but i also have OCD . . . Which hasn't helped..
I am pretty sure i have done to little to late for Karen & i realy belive that she wants it over , i will still fight to the end for her & i owe her this much to help her through this part in her life...
I am so frightend to loose her & the kids its not funny & i am so ashamed it came to this for me to move my ass & do something & i am so frightend to be on my own as the only option is my mothers oh yay . . .
The most important thing to me at the moment is Karens health & wellbeing....
I am at the moment in the middle of folding 5000 pamphlets while Karen is asleep on the lounge . . .
Well post up people i will be back on in a little while . . . . . .
So worried so frightend & scared to the point now i feel sick in the guts & cant sleep...
Something positive....
You've just topped 50,000 viewings :eek:
Well done on the massive progress at the doctor's Jason, you've done us all proud. Looks like it's your turn to carry Karen for a while, I'm sure you will. Mate they might be hard times, but to help Karen the best you can, don't waste time worrying about mights and maybes, just get stuck into helping Karen, as she has done for you for years. If I can do anything for either of you, just holler mate.
Say hi to Karen for me. :)
That's so good mate, think of all the positive things you've achieved. Now you have the chance to repay Karen for all the things she's done for you. How great is that!
Be positive Banjo, this is a great opportunity - go for it!