Embarrassment

Karen & i or i was chating to Karen & in the last 2 & a half weeks of me doing everything i have been,, I have lost a few of my OCD tendancies :D .

I also told Karen i will leave it up to her if she wants me to go shopping with her i will or if she doesn't i will mow the lawn.. she is still worried of me going as she goes to all 3 super markets down here in Cardiff on our big pay week . . .
But i'm not going to push the subject i told her that & said just let me know in the morning what ever she wants . . . .

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Originally Posted by banjo

Karen & i or i was chating to Karen & in the last 2 & a half weeks of me doing everything i have been,, I have lost a few of my OCD tendancies :D .

I also told Karen i will leave it up to her if she wants me to go shopping with her i will or if she doesn't i will mow the lawn.. she is still worried of me going as she goes to all 3 super markets down here in Cardiff on our big pay week . . .
But i'm not going to push the subject i told her that & said just let me know in the morning what ever she wants . . . .

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Onya! ;)

Ok here use are i'll give a laugh these 3 things of my OCD i have forgot about..

1 i now don't wash my hands every time i have something to eat & i meen everytime . . Not now i just eat . . :D

2 remember i said awhile back i have had to sleep with a bucket next to the bed in case of feeling sick as i have never been able to make the dunny WELL its gone stashed up in a corner no where near me ..:D

3 i would never use the dunny unless it had just been cleaned , dont ask i don't know why .. Well not any more i just go ...:mad:

4 Happy to be near the kids more always worried they could of brought some bug home from school , Doesn't seem to bother me now ..:D

I haven't even thought of these in the last 2 & a half weeks....
There maybe more i just can't think of them yet . . . . .:eek:

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Originally Posted by banjo

Ok here use are i'll give a laugh these 3 things of my OCD i have forgot about..

1 i now don't wash my hands every time i have something to eat & i meen everytime . . Not now i just eat . . :D

2 remember i said awhile back i have had to sleep with a bucket next to the bed in case of feeling sick as i have never been able to make the dunny WELL its gone stashed up in a corner no where near me ..:D

3 i would never use the dunny unless it had just been cleaned , dont ask i don't know why .. Well not any more i just go ...:mad:

4 Happy to be near the kids more always worried they could of brought some bug home from school , Doesn't seem to bother me now ..:D

I haven't even thought of these in the last 2 & a half weeks....
There maybe more i just can't think of them yet . . . . .:eek:

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No laughing mate - just happy that you're happy and things are improving for you. :D :D :D

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Originally Posted by Stuuu

No laughing mate - just happy that you're happy and things are improving for you. :D :D :D

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I just wish the most important person to me could improve .That would make me happy.It realy does kill me to see Karen like this . . Down to my level as such . . . .

Every one must be in the pub tonight....

dont know mate, but dont dare think you dont inspire people. I like a lot of others have seen you improve, the pain it has caused, the huge effort you make.
My wife has just spent a couple of years on happy pills for stress, at times I have thought my marrage was over (30 years), its been tough. Things are pretty good now. Some of it has been reading your posts and and then kicking my self in the arse because I have had no problems compared to you and karen
cheers
blaze

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Originally Posted by banjo

I just wish the most important person to me could improve .That would make me happy.It realy does kill me to see Karen like this . . Down to my level as such . . . .

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That new dawn is not far away.

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Originally Posted by banjo

Every one must be in the pub tonight....

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Except us ;)

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Originally Posted by bblaze

dont know mate, but dont dare think you dont inspire people. I like a lot of others have seen you improve, the pain it has caused, the huge effort you make.
My wife has just spent a couple of years on happy pills for stress, at times I have thought my marrage was over (30 years), its been tough. Things are pretty good now. Some of it has been reading your posts and and then kicking my self in the arse because I have had no problems compared to you and karen
cheers
blaze

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I'm sorry to hear that stress is just as debilytating as agerophobia sometimes & in so many ways . .

Banjo, it took 23 years to grind Karen down, so it won't reverse overnight. Help Karen by supporting her as she has done for you. Show her the patience and tolerance she needs and deserves, specially while she is sick. Don't under estimate how ill the poor girl is.