Yep got it in one he has no confidence in himself what so ever.everything he does isn't good enough just look at his car he thinks its crap .he doesnt know how to except a compliment,you give him one & he says na its crap,everything has to be perfect.He does have a grip on it its just every now and then he has a tizzy usually only last a couple of hours at most & usually not bad at all, I think it might be because he is finally getting it off his chest for once instead of telling me all the time , he hasnt even began to scratch the surface of his life but i doubt he will tell you all everything but he will tell you some ,he has spoke to me about telling you some more .The first was when his granfather died,The second was when his grandmother died & now today the third.. he is just like most parents where there kids are concerned..This is probably the third time in 22 years that i have seen him this low, i didnt even know he posted it today for awhile, i was out he usually tells me but must of felt comfortable with you all as he told you before me thats a huge step guys he doesnt tell anybody..most of the time he controls it & we go about our stuff as usual the kids & i ,i mean & sometimes he does to..
Well we are going to look at a house tomorrow afternoon its a 4 bedroom place but it doesn't have a garage so i can see him saying no before we even get inside..

