Hey Jason I don't think this thread is going to die like you said
Has it stopped raining enough for you to check out the clutch?
Nobody expects anything from you. If you do it then you must be doing it for your self not because of others expectations or to please others. If you do it for other reasons then you are just going through the motions. You must put yourself first and think of just yourself. That might sound selfish but unless you are fit and healthy then there is no way you can do anything for anyone else, even if you wanted to.
What happen last time, what went wrong. What will you do different this time to make it a better experience.
Something I can tell you is you usually get what you expect. The reason for this is because that is what you really want regardless of what you do or say. If you start down the road expecting it will be a waste of time then it will be, always, because you will find every reason to make it turn out that way, after all, you always knew it would be.
Yes it is going to be a very very long haul but you have to admit your in a very very deep hole and it's as dark as midnight. Time to start imagining a better life for yourself. Think about it, write about it, talk about it every day and at every opportunity. Eventually you will start doing things which will make it happen, little by little, because that is how peoples minds work, they plan and carry out the goals given to them.
My 2 cents worth.
2024 RRS on the road
2011 D4 3.0 in the drive way
1999 D2 V8, in heaven
1984 RRC, in hell
Hey Jason I don't think this thread is going to die like you said
Has it stopped raining enough for you to check out the clutch?
Cheers, Dale
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You're not doing it for Karen or the kids Banjo, you're doing it for yourself. That's a good thing. If you help yourself, then you might be able to help others too. One step at a time.
Well i was talking to Karen this morning & she was saying that no one from here has been in touch with her use all are our friends not just mine.So Please give her a text or a ring use all have her numbers home & mobile..
Do use want to know what i was talking to her about ???????
To bad use are gunna hear any way ..
I got in touch with BEYOND BLUE mental health to see what they could offer in the way of help ..
Well they run a program of self help courses but they dont have anything where i am at the moment as yet..BUT they do run a courses at Charlstown which is not far from home ..I have to have a phone asessment first & some email contact with the organizer lady so she can work out the best way to help & was told not to rush things or i would be in for a big let down if i tried to do that...The course is also for carers aswell to help them better manage there support....
I have emailed the organizer lady linda someone for my phone asessment but have been told i mite not hear till early next week as she is very busy..
I have also downloaded some info on selfhelp & advise ..I havent read it yet..
Karen said to ring life line but they are for suicide not anxiety .. But i am looking for a counsiler for the phone for the time being..
I am trying to find where i can get some more info sent out to me about some DVDs for the selfhelp i looked at one of the links Ferret put up & they had some DVDs but where very exspensive... i thought i mite of been able to get some free or even some books or reading matierial on the self help as this seems to be the best place to start & i have all the time in the world to read....
Apparently a lot of people who have read & or watched the matierial has helped them a lot to the piont they go out lots now & these things have ways to help yourself manage the panic attacks with breathing & mind exersizes to build up yourself ...
So if anyone of use know of books or anything yell out as i want to do some reading on it ..
Oh & i guess outside of Karen i will be puting use down as my support as i was told i will need the help & support of family & friends so i guess thats Karen & use..
Also while looking the mob Micayle seen & that Karen is now seeing came up as a speicalist in this field but i need a referal from my doctors to go there & i will have to go on a plan thing for the free treatment & i have to pay $50 on the first visit.. But i cant just jump in the car & do that down there just yet.. But i will be eventualy . . . I only get 6 visits on the plan thing but i can get another referal if needed..
1969 LWB S2a yellow, gone
1972 LWB S2a 5 DOOR wagon coming & GONE
1973 LWB S3 green Sadly GONE
1977 LWB S3 tabletop building
1992 disco BOINGY BOINGY
My landrover doesn't leak oil , IT SWEATS POWER
JASON & KAREN
Well i pu Karen & the kids first today Karen has put in for Micayla's payment thing since she is 16 so they wont pay Karen for it till after she is 16 its only 2 weeks.. & Karen was going to be $150 so i gave it to her out of what i had left i should fine i have some left in the bank & a little cash on me & i get paid again on thursday so all is good. Plus Karen paper money still goes into the joint account so i said to Karen to take it when it goes in.....
AND i feel good for doing it puting them first .....its a great feeling to be able to help out....
1969 LWB S2a yellow, gone
1972 LWB S2a 5 DOOR wagon coming & GONE
1973 LWB S3 green Sadly GONE
1977 LWB S3 tabletop building
1992 disco BOINGY BOINGY
My landrover doesn't leak oil , IT SWEATS POWER
JASON & KAREN
Onya jase, your last two posts really cheered me. It's good to look forward. I am really happy that you are taking positive steps
Hi Jason
This is the most progress you have made sinse starting this thread, bloody proud of you mate. ****ing with rain here, cold and all that while trying to get a shed finished (ever tried eating with no top teeth)
cheers
blaze
Well i mite not be on as much till thursday as dodo dont like working real well but i only have 17 hours left & i have been chating with fred for a couple of hours of a nite...
1969 LWB S2a yellow, gone
1972 LWB S2a 5 DOOR wagon coming & GONE
1973 LWB S3 green Sadly GONE
1977 LWB S3 tabletop building
1992 disco BOINGY BOINGY
My landrover doesn't leak oil , IT SWEATS POWER
JASON & KAREN
Good onya mate.
Thanks for the call - good to talk with you at last
Can't tomorrow as I'm on a plane going home to where its WARM![]()
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Cheers, Dale
PIC - It comes with the Territory
'The D3' - 2006 TDV6 HSE
2008 Kimberley Kamper Sports RV
Previously Enjoyed:
2002 Adventure Offroad Campers 'Cape York'
2000 D2 Td5 - plus!
1997 Defender 110 Wagon - fully carpeted
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