Thread: Embarrassment

The last tattoo karen got was only just over 2 weeks ago & she said there where no feelings there & that she WASN'T trying to fight going there as she as the urges to go there wheren't there..
But today she said she is still fighting to stay away sometimes & she was there on friday for awhile looking for more tattoos she has found 2 more that she wants to get by the same guy..

Sounds like her interest is in the tatoos, not the guy.

Get some proper help happening Banjo, that'll make you so much more attractive to Karen. Start controlling your own destiny.

Originally Posted by DiscoMick

Sounds like her interest is in the tatoos, not the guy.

she has spoken to him since i have been here & the only reason she didn't talk to him on friday was that he was busy doing a tattoo...

Ok give me a bit of advise last fortnight pay i got a part payment so did Karen so i gave Karen $150 out of mine no drama this week Karen only gets a part payment again i get my full pension , So i told Karen to take out $300 so she can pay the bills no drama i also told Karen to take out her paper delivery money about $100 no drama..

Now i have everyone up here telling me not to give them the money BUT I LOOK AT IT AS PUTTING KAREN & THE KIDS FIRST FOR A CHANGE..
Everyone says no dont cause if karen dont want you back she cant pay you back doesn't bother me..My step father is saying dont she will have to get someone in to help pay the rent & the bills meening a bloke ...
Mum says dont give them any money that way Karen will realise she cant live on her own & then would want me back..

I recon if i did this Karen would just say go **** your self then & i would never get back home.. & i dont want to say that cause i dont think like that..

Me i am doing it to put karen & the kids first & i also take it as we are still together untill Karen has seen the sych & gets her head sorted & then she tells me other wise..

Karen used to work at the cardiff hot bread shop & was going to ring the boss to see if she could work again & start on monday just been ..I'm glad she didnt as it was robbed & the 2 cooks & the lady out front counter where tied up & the took the cash register & everyones mobiles & wallets..

Now i would like Karen to work if she wants if we are together & i also want Karen to goto the gym & not worry about me at home or worry that she should hurry home as i'm at home on my own..
If i do get back home i will be buying another project to do so i will be busy...

Also had someone from here tell me i should stay where i am & start a new life for myself ....****OFF I DONT THINK SO.. I love Karen very dearly...

Been on the gerny all day cleaning at the cement still got more to do tomorrow..

Originally Posted by V8Ian

Get some proper help happening Banjo, that'll make you so much more attractive to Karen. Start controlling your own destiny.

Spoke to Karen today about that she is picking up a referal for me on thursday while she gets her blood test & is going to speak to the sych on thursday while she is there to as she says it mite be better if she has some visits first to get her sorted a bit & see how she feels first....

Hi Jason
I think you are doing the right thing supporting your family, just dont run yourself too short of money in a way that it may affect your ability to recieve treatment for yourself. Still gotta give you a ring some time, seems I havnt had time to fart lately
think positive and stay safe
cheers
blaze

I think you should negotiate a fixed long-term arrangement. If you then want to do extra its beyond that agreement. Otherwise you're inevitably going to end up in a fight over money. Fix an agreement now before that happens. If circumstances change, you can review it.