"Grief is the celebration of real love, those who feel real grief are lucky to have loved." Many people have been feeling real grief these days.

"Grief is a cruel kind of education. You learn how ungentle mourning can be, how full of anger. You learn how glib condolences can feel. You learn how much grief is about language, the failure of language and the grasping for language"

In memoriam: James Nwoye Adichie, 1932-2020

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie: Notes on Grief | The New Yorker