Hi Gitney,
You are right on so many levels, since I wrote this post I am now back in a Land Rover. Yes I still have the Land Cruiser 100 series I bought, I have done a major service on it and replaced the timing belt, all so easy to do, not like the open heart surgery I had to perform on the TDV6 engine.
At the time I parted with the Deefer I was using a Holden Crewman to go to work yes it was comfortable and ***** it was quick. However after all it is a Holden Commodore, yes an Australian icon and for the service it gave to me it was great, never missed a beat.
I missed Land Rover so I sold the Crewman (eventually) and bought a P38a, I had pleasant memories of the P38, comfortable, quiet and reliable, my memories and maybe not the same for others. The P38 is now getting quite hard to maintain, parts are harder and yes they all seem to have air suspension problems, saying that I fitted a new valve block and overhauled the compressor and it was fine.
Six months down the track I have now sold the P38 and gone to a D3 4.0 petrol, all the creature comforts of a D3, air suspension and the get up and go of the 4.0 V6.
Steel pan conversion yesterday, transmission is now back to normal. Couple of trim bits replaced and things are now quite neat inside.
I think I'm going to stick with the D3 for a while now, I don't think I'll ever make it into a Prado, I'm glad it has worked out for you. The other bit you mention about the wave, and the camaraderie of the Land Rover marque, I doubt you will ever put a value on that. The car park scenario, like you I would have picked the Deefer.

