You say your use to seeing 80-82*C head temp and 91-92*C coolant temp, but what are you seeing when it is 'overheating' ?
I've got my head temp sensor near the back of the head, and this reads within 2-3*C of what my Nanocom reading is.
Without towing I'll see temps of upto 94*C, this is in traffic, slow speed driving, highway. This is with ambient temps in the low 40's.
With the camper on the back it will go upto 96*C on long hills, also if dropping from 100kph limit down to 60kph it will rise upto 96*C But then drop off again. I put this down to reduced airflow through the engine bay and heat soak from the turbo.
My cooling system is standard, original 2003 radiator, but all hoses, thermostat, coolant cap and viscous fan replaced in the last 12 months.
As Pat says I think you're looking for a problem that doesn't exist, hence my previous questions

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