Hi Alex. The deefer crew will possibly kill me for this. I have Disco3 SE, drove a mates Deefer and it was great for what we did with it. 
My kids and two baby seat and later booster seats were fine in the Disco. same seats in the Lexus rx350 was a major PITA for 3 in the back seat!! Not sure how the deefenders fair in that myself
In long distance touring the seat and suspension in the Disco is the best by a long shot. Deefenders and 
many other 4wds are almost agricultural equipment in comfort comparison to Discos and RRs. We have traveled over 500,000 km in my first and replacment Disco road and also some great fun 4wd only locations. 
As pointed out hands on makes mechanically capable consider Deefers or Pre Disco 3s perhaps? I did look very closely before I opted for the D3. My Deefer tin foil hat is on.. 
4wd capability is not in my view compromised in any way with a Disco with the right shoes on! Freelanders are/were a little ride height and space compromised for my three kids 
One of my staff grabbed a ex army version several years ago. She lasted less than a year with it. It was cool but not great as a daily drive for her.
Tin hat on but they know I love them as well
 
good luck with your hunts mate
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