Sarah, Lucas and Family. I cannot hope to offer any meaningful consolation. After involvement in searches for many who could not see the light at the end of the tunnel and the loss of friends the same way, I can only offer you my families thoughts and empathy to yours.
As others have said, you are part of a very large community, some of whom know you and are feeling as lost and hurt.
These good people NEED to help you as much as YOU need support. Your situation is are not an inconvenience and no-one should go through this alone.
It will do all involved the world of good.
Our love (as much as strangers can) and hopes for your future are there.
David and Family.

