
Originally Posted by
wagoo
Hi Siska. Sorry I have taken a few days off from the internet to try to sort out some inter family issues and only just caught this thread.
Although we may not have met,I am extremely concerned with the problems you are experiencing and can only reiterate what others have advised, and that is to go see that doctor and get help ASAP. Hopefully he/she can find some medication that will keep your condition under control or can refer you for psychological counceling.
One thing I can guarantee you is no matter how you feel inside, your friends and family will certainly not be better off with you gone. Aside from the immense grief of finding a loved spouse,son/daughter, brother/sister, mother/father or dear friend who has taken their own life, there are the every day matters that family left behind have to contend with during and after the grieving process.My wife may have thought that she planned things well in advance, but the reality is that she has left one hell of mess to sort out.
I mentioned the EACH 'day to day' living group in my thread, and that despite my wifes loss, I cannot praise them highly enough for their empathy, support and dedication to helping people with psychological problems. I will be joining the mutual support group on their activities on Tues and Thurs next week,and also to talk with their Chaplain (non denominational) about a few emotional issues, and if you don't mind I would like to print out your first post and show it to the staff and ask if they can offer you some councelling at one of their branches that is handy to where you live.
At this time unfortunately I do not have too many answers, but if I can be of any help to you please don't hesitate to ask. Furthermore, if you are not already a LROCV member and would like a bit of company with some of the LandRover family, or a one on one chat, I would like to invite you to my property in Dixons Creek next weekend. We are having one of our 2 monthly trials events on Sunday 3rd June. Depending on the weather, some members also camp over on the Saturday. If you prefer to remain Incognito, that's fine too, as occasionally non member mates of mine occasionally turn up for the day.
The 'Trials Family' are a friendly, close knit faction within the club that have given me enormous support these past couple of weeks, for which I will always be gratefull.
Sincerest regards, Bill.
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