Not quite correct. BP refinery (QLD) in the late 90's upgraded its refinery to produce diesel with lower aromatics and higher cetane number. So in effect it was "better" diesel.
Now aromatics cause rubber and seals to swell. If you run an engine from new on diesel with one level of aromatics, then switch to diesel with lower levels of aromatics, then the seals try and shrink, but are too old/stiff/brittle to do so.
So it does not "destroy" seals. It may instead make old crappy seals more likely to leak.

