Originally Posted by
Simon
I believe it starts with boundaries. If kids dont learn them they push further and further. It then gets harder to pull them back to decency, which is made impossible by the reluctance to impose any sanction, and so the cycle goes on.
The victim mentality rules. Are they victims? It could be argued yes, as their parents failed them but by then refusing to deal with their actions its just perpetuating the failure which made them victims to start with.
What to do about the failure of the parents. Should we remove kids much more than we do, or hold the parents accountable for kids actions to age 18?
What to do when it becomes obvious nothing can now pull them back to decency. Throw away the key? 3 strikes and out like the US?