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    Quote Originally Posted by pop058 View Post
    Maybe an offer to replace the tools with other/new ones as some sort of compensation. By sounds the father and daughter are good people so start with a cuppa and a chat
    This would be the most gracious method.....

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    And maybe not all the tools, maybe just some with his name on them, for sentimental reasons - and offer to replace them all with new ones.

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    Thanks for all the advice!
    I new the answer! But was hoping someone would convince me i wasn't being an arse!!
    Will keep to my original decision and be happy the tools are being put to good use!
    My son and I have lots of other fond memories of Frank/Pop and a few tools won't change these!!

    Cheers Lemo

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lemo View Post
    Thanks for all the advice!
    I new the answer! But was hoping someone would convince me i wasn't being an arse!!
    Will keep to my original decision and be happy the tools are being put to good use!
    My son and I have lots of other fond memories of Frank/Pop and a few tools won't change these!!

    Cheers Lemo
    If it was me i would put a proposition to them and see what they say, worst that can happen is they say no,
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    Tool dilemma

    Hi Lemo,
    I think your father would say ," if you've made the agreement you had better stick to it".
    They will be loved and used but not by you.
    It doesn't diminish anything.
    Peter.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lemo View Post
    Thanks for all the advice!
    I new the answer! But was hoping someone would convince me i wasn't being an arse!!
    Will keep to my original decision and be happy the tools are being put to good use!
    My son and I have lots of other fond memories of Frank/Pop and a few tools won't change these!!

    Cheers Lemo
    Sounds like a great time to start your own Father/Son tradition. Some new tools with both your names engraved on a couple of special ones.

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    Does it have to be an "all or nothing" situation?

    Would you feel better if you asked if there were any tools that were duplicated or of no use to the daughter for some other reason?

    If you insisted that you only wanted a few keepsakes that she didn't need, would that keep everyone happy?

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