Best way of putting it I have heard John,
so far so good and no conflict, I am just a little concerned as this information came via mail when all the rest came over the phone. I realize its a formal process but this feeling of being ambushed is very strong. To date we have had an amicable split due to the kids welfare being top priority. I have seen too many messed up kids from divorce proceedings. I talk to the kids every second or third night and dont wish to have that effected or restricted as they are in central Vic and im NE NSW. Due to distances involved the phone is my lifeline to the children especially my baby who keeps forgetting who I am if i dont talk to her regularly.
Good strong valid points,
Thank you for posting them.

