teenagers

subasurf, You taking the **** out of the young fella is bloody rude mate, he has seen the effects of to much grog at home and he dosn't care for it. he has seen the effects of drugs sex and says that is not for me.

You sound like you just lack balls to be a parent and can't make decisions or dicipline your child. Children need to be loved and diciplined but most parents these days don't dicipline affectivly eg; little kid screaming at shop, you say no, kid still screams nags, you continue saying no untill you snap and you abuse the kid verbally and you smack them way to hard, You have lost control and thats abuse, Now if you had said no from the start then smacked them the next time they asked you, you remain in control and you don't loose your temper, dicipline needs to be consitant from a young age then when they get older they respect your position as the parent.

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Originally Posted by lambrover

subasurf, You taking the **** out of the young fella is bloody rude mate, he has seen the effects of to much grog at home and he dosn't care for it. he has seen the effects of drugs sex and says that is not for me.

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And that's fine...I wasn't taking the **** out of his life choices, just taking the **** out of the fact he wont shutup about it. Nothing even prompted this thread except the OP wanting to let everyone know how he is so not like those dirty filthy teens. Maybe I should start a thread about how I'm Christian and how good I am and how that makes me so much better off than everyone else who isn't...let's see how long that would last before I got called out to STFU. *NOTE* I am not really that Christian and I don't think that...it's just an example.

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Originally Posted by lambrover

You sound like you just lack balls to be a parent and can't make decisions or dicipline your child. Children need to be loved and diciplined but most parents these days don't dicipline affectivly eg; little kid screaming at shop, you say no, kid still screams nags, you continue saying no untill you snap and you abuse the kid verbally and you smack them way to hard, You have lost control and thats abuse, Now if you had said no from the start then smacked them the next time they asked you, you remain in control and you don't loose your temper, dicipline needs to be consitant from a young age then when they get older they respect your position as the parent.

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Couldn't agree more. I'm not a parent mate. Never said I was...but when I am, you better believe my kids will be forced the pull their heads in or suffer the consequences. I'm all for discipline mate, I really am but I don't think hard but fair discipline is the only answer to keep your kids from going off the rails.

Anyhoo, you're right, it was kind of rude for me to attack the kid. I stand by my point, but I suppose I should have kept it to myself. I'll cop that one on the chin and keep it to myself ;)

cool mate I can see your point

sweet as. Here, have a beer. :twobeers::beer:

:D

by the way it didnt come from nowhere and im definetly not trying to say how good i am.in the last week of school 2 guys in my year have turned up to school stoned one guy drank a whole bottle of vodka and there is a party coming up next weekend and just to get a few things clear
1.yes i gave advive but thats what advice is for you can take it or leave it
2.im not saying im the best and if anyone drinks smokes or takes drugs they are worse then what i am
3.and im not 1 in a million that doesnt drink smoke or take drugs theres plenty
4.the whole point of this thing was to see what other peoples opinion on the way teenagers act because i have noticed things getting worse where i am it seems that some laws just mean nothing to some people

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So what if someone rocked up stoned. So what if someone drank a bottle of vodka. So what if there is a party. It's been like that for years.

Here's a rundown of your first original post:

Teens are crap. Have you seen how bad they are?!!? But me and my friend are not like that. We're better. The end.

obviously you dont understand what i said
and maybe you should re read that original post but in case you dont il give you the rundown
i dont no why people get smashed for no point.you can have fun without alcohol smokes and drugs.lucky my friend is on the same page as me(so i can discuss these things with him).anyone else want to say something about it go for it

With the exception of their schooling, high school kids are basically under very little obligation to do anything. They usually have no bills they are obliged to pay, careers to devote themselves to, concerns about the cost of living, etc. As dependants their existence is almost purely hedonic. Thoughts about the future rarely extend beyond next week. Surely it doesn't need to be stated that alcohol, drugs and sex giveth man great pleasure...

Yeah, it would be great if we could all simply do what gives us satisfaction, but in the real world we're required to act because it might be the right thing to do, because there is no one else to do it for us, because of moral/financial/political/social/legal obligations, or because it isn't significantly inconsequential.

I hope that helps answer the original question, but it is my thoughts only.

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Originally Posted by B92 8NW

With the exception of their schooling, high school kids are basically under very little obligation to do anything. They usually have no bills they are obliged to pay, careers to devote themselves to, concerns about the cost of living, etc. As dependants their existence is almost purely hedonic. Thoughts about the future rarely extend beyond next week. Surely it doesn't need to be stated that alcohol, drugs and sex giveth man great pleasure...

Yeah, it would be great if we could all simply do what gives us satisfaction, but in the real world we're required to act because it might be the right thing to do, because there is no one else to do it for us, because of moral/financial/political/social/legal obligations, or because it isn't significantly inconsequential.

I hope that helps answer the original question, but it is my thoughts only.

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You young whippersnappers have it so easy. When I was in high school I worked a fulltime job and had to wear eighties clothes.


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Simon

i feel for you having to wear eighties clothes:p what was your job?