oh very correct, i had to read your post a couple of times to get your point.
But yes, blue eyes white skin is an aphrodisiac to some cultures ( exaggerating for effect) although i have no personal knowledge of this ever happening, but i suspect that is because of where i was as opposed to it not happening elsewhere.
Personally its a bit like the first stone. i would not be prepared to put a female in such a situation but i would put a male. my reasons why are not easy to articulate as i am not so sure of them myself. maybe it has some thing to do with that book beside my bed.
talking of books. book number 4 or 5 of the Dune series has an interesting debate on the female army. science fiction i know but maybe not so when you look at the author.

