Can a Disco 4 tow a van with 350kg ball weight... I think not fit for purpose..
Just an observation - if your van, ball weight, loads in either the vehicle or van are so close to max capacity that you have to juggle the bacon and eggs and how big a dog you can put in the back - if it's that close to the wire, do you have the wrong tow vehicle and/or van in the first place? I know with my van I have around 100kg up my sleeve when I'm loaded ready to go, water tank full, and I'm only half of the towing capacity of the tow vehicle I use, so not only do I know I'm 100% legal when I set out, but also that the towing experience is easy, rather than heavy or 'on the edge' as some people's are. Not saying you can't or shouldn't have a big flash heavy van, but taking any vehicle close to its 'legal' limit will always be a compromise to stay within GCM.