Only problem I have had with two TDI's was that I couldn't keep up with fan belts. They were replaced about every 10000ks. Lack of torque down low and when towing, if baulked going up hill, requires a Low range start and mobile upshift in the transfer case to get going. I replaced my manual with an auto to overcome this problem but the problem still arose.
Upgraded to a TD5 and am extremely happy with this engine for my towing requirements. Its magic.
But, electronics are a bit of a problem. Had a load of problems with the sensor on the top of the gear box, and when this played up the vehicle went into "limp home" mode (3rd gear). This problem was overcome by extending the a/c drain hose by 2" so the water didn't drop on the switch. Stupid things like that are a fact of life but if you can find a mech who thinks "outside the squre" they are a bloody good engine, or so it is in my experience anyway.
Regards
Glen

