Thread: Embarrassment

Originally Posted by Fluids

You could always sell the wife & kids ....

Sorry

Kev..

NA NA they would want a refund after only an hour..

That wouldn't raise enough money to buy enough fuel to get to Motto Farm.

Originally Posted by banjo

Hey blaze how was your weekend camping not to cold & wet i hope..

Not long been home, Great weekend with great company. Woke up this morning with ice inside the swag, its a oz trail mitchel, one of the hoop ones and the condesation turned to a thin layer of ice. Got up at about 5 ish for a pee (had to break that off), stoke the fire up brewed a coffee and parked myself in front of a lovely camp fire until the other noisey buggers broke the peace at about 6
cheers
blaze

Originally Posted by bblaze

Not long been home, Great weekend with great company. Woke up this morning with ice inside the swag, its a oz trail mitchel, one of the hoop ones and the condesation turned to a thin layer of ice. Got up at about 5 ish for a pee (had to break that off), stoke the fire up brewed a coffee and parked myself in front of a lovely camp fire until the other noisey buggers broke the peace at about 6
cheers
blaze

Just read that to Karen & she said , So you want to go camping & you recon swags are the way to go Well guess what it aint gunna happen she says.....WUSS

Hey Aus did you end up ringing up about that new newcastle landrover club if so how did you get on ...?

Originally Posted by banjo

Oh dear i think this is going to hurt...Where to start
Well i have been on a pension for a few years now because i have AGROPHOBIA servere panic disorder.i have trouble going out to the point where i have locked myself in the bathroom in colds sweats with my heart in my throat thinking i would passout or pee or crap myself..i also have done this when i have had people coming over to visit or in this case (people offering to come & help )..it has ruined my life & my immediate family (wife & kids)..you know we used to go up to our local bush (hillsborough ) when we had a nissan SWB kids loved it but it sometimes could take me an hour to get there & we only live literaly 5 min drive from it..
its been realy hard for us because our families think its a big joke .they seem to think its funny to take the micky out of me ..but 27 years of abuse mentaly,physically,mentaly sexualy..
So i dont deal with people to well cause if i have to leave or (hide)as such they dont understand so we just dont do it but its now realy taking its toll on the wife & kids..
we had to file bankrupt a few years back now & the way this rover is going it could send us there again..wife (karen is realy worried )
i had a friend who i used to do stuff with because he didnt care that if we where going some where if i needed to turn round & head for home he didnt say anything i would just settle myself down & then turnround again & keep going & catch up to him & this could happen a few times before i got there & sometime i couldnt get there but he was ok with it so we got on real good but he went & died on me & i have taken it hard & since then i havent been able to do anything realy & we used to go bush alot just for the day out to sugarloaf & out the back of glendale & up hillsborough man i miss those days we all had fun me the kids & wife plus my friend..we used to work for ourselves i am a diesel mechanic by trade havent touched tools since i done my trade 20 years ago but we used to wash & grease trucks that kept us going was good money cause we used to do about 20 trucks a week..
Now the best i do is going down to the local shops again 5min drive away but i do go for a walk round aldi the cheap shops & the paper shop gotta get me rover mags..but this rarely happens .karen does all my running around picking up parts & the like..
i seem to get on better with woman the shrink says its because most of the abuse i suffered was from my father..
hence the reason we only see a few family members ..
we thought it bout time i told use as we have had offers of help with the car..
dont know how i would handle it..but if it wasnt for karen i know i would be dead she saved me..
the best thing so far is my kids..
& i have to say i have never found so many people to offer to help when they havent even met us ..thats cool.
i can only hope that when the car is sorted i can get some part of our life back & start going back to the bush...
So we would like to say many many thanks to everyone who has offered to help...
Not trying to be sobby just thought if use new the problem it mite make it easier to understand why i cant except the offers of help but i (we) really appreciate them i dont know how i would handle people here for the time it could take...
THANKS Jason & Karen..

Well i recon i have made a little headway since this post.
I have gained more confidance in the last 6 months than i have in 12 years of seeing shrinks & saved heaps to..
I have also made the effort to go on little outings more than i have in the past anyway..

But most of all we have made some very strong friendships that will stay with us for a very long time...

So we would just like to say thankyou for everyones surport & friendships..

And the theropy is pretty good aswell..



THANKS Jason & Karen...

You've come a long way since that post mate, give yourself a pat on the back. You have people all round the world who are proud of you Jason, these people will help you in any way they can.

Originally Posted by banjo

Just read that to Karen & she said , So you want to go camping & you recon swags are the way to go Well guess what it aint gunna happen she says.....WUSS

Hi Jason
Karen - Teaspoon of concrete may help. Wasnt cold at all in the sleeping bag, been even warmer in a double swag with my wife cuddled up to me. I have never had ice inside it before and I think it was cause by the condensation, never had that problem before either, mind you I think it was sub zreo temps over night.
Dosnt seem to matter how cold it gets, you put the warm cloths and the beanie on, pull up a chair of choice and park it at the required distances from the camp fire, adjust at times to suit fire output, strike up some good consevation with like minded people. Dosnt take long to find heaven on earth at the right campfire no matter where its lit. One day, maybe myself and my wife along with you and jason can find that place around a campfire one day.
Hows the injury healing?
cheers
blaze