Because a bigger turbo produces less boost at low and medium speeds. Turbo sizing isn't about bigger=better. It's about choosing the right turbo for your needs. It is a lot of work to properly map out a turbo for a diesel engine. Most people don't, they simply try another one or copy someone else.
The stock turbo on a TD5 is a GT2052 wastegated. Going up to a GT2256V only works because the V is variable vane.
If you went up to a GT2256 wastegated tubo or GT2560V variable vane then you'd lose considerable low end boost and torque.
Attempting to make more low end torque without boost just makes smoke and high EGT.
Presumably you're referring to Pirate4x4 where the discussion always centres around Merc OM617 (3L idi diesel), Cummins 4BT (3.9L tdi) or the 4BD1T.
In landrovers the 4BD1T is the only sensible choice. The Merc is thirsty and has very little torque, the cummins intake and sump design doesn't fit nicely in a landrover and requires a large amount of extra height to overcome. The 4BD1T is also significantly more refined than the 4BT and is available in the US in decent numbers.
You appear to disagree mainly because you love petrol V8's. Which is more a personal choice than anything else. I don't have any love for petrol V8's, but I can appreciate why others do.
And how did you reach that conclusion when no-one here knows what I have or haven't done? Is it the stereotype that you can't know the theory and be able to use it?
I don't fit stereotypes well.
Here's a simple question for those who think they know the practical side of tuning. This is a map from one of my vehicles. Please tell me how I found it (there are no WinOls map packs available for this ECU), how I identified it, what the axis are and what significant change it made to the engine it controls.
http://users.actrix.co.nz/dougal.ell...1%20%20Map.png
Evidence being videos of smoke? We still haven't received any EGT measurements and likely never will. How do you tune a diesel and call it safe without knowing the sustained EGT?
It's funny how you back one tuner who produces smoking defenders (TD5inside) and bag another one (td5alive) above. What makes you treat them differently?

