i understand mate, which is why myself and other people here offered advice on where to try and find the leak and possible causes for it. the coolant alarm comment i posted was just in reply to the comment which i quoted you on. further back in this thread though there is probably all the info you need regarding coolant loss issues.
as an addition. when i changed my head and filled up the cooling system (which was completely overhauled) i had issues with coolant coming out of the expansion tank. it only happened once. i changed back to my old cap and it seemed to go away. but looking back i don't think it was the cap because i have since put the new one back on with no issues. I think my problem was being too paranoid about having air bubbles (traps) in the system and overfilling the cooling system. once under pressure, the excess coolant was expelled though the cap and this made me think there was a bigger issue somewhere. it was either what i just explained, or there was air trapped in there which possibly slightly over heated the car and then expelled coolant.
either way once i managed to get the cooling system in balance. this seemed to go but i still thought there was a problem because i was getting coolant loss and it was everywhere but mostly around the expansion tank. this made me think it was the same issue but it turned out that i put a hose clamp too tight on bottom radiator house and split the spigot that comes out, so when the system was pressurized a jet of coolant would shoot up and hit the fan and then get splashed all over the place.
it threw me off for a while because i thought the original problem had not solved itself but after having a pro look at it, turned out it was this different problem and the overfilling issue had resolved itself earlier.
when overfilled, i was getting coolant coming out of other places too. like from behind the housing which bolts onto the head (PS pump and water pump attach to it) and also the emptying out bolt on the exhaust side of the block. since the system is in balance, none of these places leak anymore.

